Why I Connect on Quora: Personal Relationships Over Popularity

When I first started using Quora, I was just a silent reader, consuming the vast array of knowledge without engaging with anyone. I would read through posts with a detached attitude, getting information but missing the opportunity for meaningful connections. That changed when I stumbled upon Akanksha Shukla's story about her journey as an SBI PO. As a government job aspirant myself, her story resonated deeply with me, and it was this shared experience that sparked a genuine interest in her.

From Reader to Connector

Driven by curiosity, I began exploring Akanksha's profile, reading every answer and post she had shared. Impulsively, I reached out to her via message. To my surprise, she responded! This small interaction felt like a bridge between us, making me feel more connected to her. That's when I decided to follow her, marking the first time I ever followed a Quora writer.

Since then, my approach to Quora has evolved. I have chosen to follow only individuals with whom I have a personal connection. While I do appreciate and engage with high-quality content, whether it's upvoting an insightful post or leaving a positive comment, I don't follow someone just because they are a top writer or widely recognized on the platform.

Engaging for Genuine Reasons

My decision to follow only those with whom I have a personal bond is not meant to reflect my ego or distance myself from others. I firmly believe that meaningful engagement can occur without the need for a follow. Instead of building a follower list based on popularity or ego, I focus on connecting with individuals who truly matter to me. Each person I interact with is someone I feel a genuine connection with, whether through shared interests, experiences, or simply a click of fate.

Personal Bonds on Quora

Currently, I follow only two people on Quora: my sisters, Diksha and Riya. We are not related by blood, nor have we met in person. However, the bond we share is unique and deep. Diksha, a few years younger but wiser and more experienced, became a part of my life through a chance encounter on Quora. She now calls me 'bhaiya' (senior brother), and our bond feels more like a sisterly relationship than anything else.

Riya, on the other hand, became a sister to me in an unprecedented way. Having always believed that having a sister is a blessing, her presence on Quora filled a void in my life. She brought a warmth and a sense of belonging that enriches my days. We have shared voices on Quora, and the connection we have forged is something I cherish deeply.

Personal and Genuine

For me, it's not just about numbers. My Quora journey is about building a circle of meaningful relationships. If my follower list ever grows, it will still reflect the relationships built on trust and understanding. Each person I choose to follow holds a special place in my heart, and that's what truly matters to me on this platform.

In conclusion, my decision to connect on Quora is rooted in personal relationships, not popularity. By doing so, I aim to engage in genuine interactions rather than chasing numbers or fame. It's a personal journey that brings joy and fulfillment, one connection at a time.

Thank you for reading. If you engage with content that resonates with you, feel free to connect, but be it for genuine reasons and meaningful relationships.

u2013 Priyanshu Gautam