The Feeling of Being 65: Reflections and Realities

Introduction: Reflections on the Age of 65

Yesterday’s great musicians and entertainers charted lives full of revolution and innovation, times synonymous with the groove and excitement of the past. However, much of the world was marred by Vietnam, a war that cost our age group, those of us in our late 60s now, over 57,000 lives. The emergence of women into their own in male-dominated fields, like music, can partly be attributed to this shortage of men. Although there were challenges, like racial tension and societal comments, history shows a period filled with profound stories and significant impacts. Words like regret do not seem to resonate with the majority of us who lived through this transformative time.

The Benefits of Aging

For many of our age group, at 65, life feels good. The stress of caring for a family is less, and the freedom to pursue what one truly enjoys is unparalleled. Gone are the daily obligations and responsibilities that once seemed insurmountable. Instead, there is time to explore interests and hobbies, to travel, and to enjoy the simple pleasures of life. At 65, the physical reminders of aging are evident, but the sense of responsibility and discernment is richer than ever before.

A Personal Experience

I recently visited my cardiologist for a routine check-up, and, at 70, he reported that I was doing well. Two years ago, I underwent a quintuple bypass, and this morning, my blood pressure was a healthy 130/62. He reminded me that each day is precious, and that I have much more of it to enjoy, provided I remain vigilant and make smart choices. Being 65 was a breeze, despite working 70 to 85 hours a week, driving 200 miles daily, and managing a 20 million dollar budget. At 66, the company decided that I was no longer a valuable asset to the insurance pool, which made me acutely aware of the physical limitations that come with age. My hearing is occasionally suspect, and I find myself needing glasses to see clearly. However, my mind remains sharp, and my passion for learning endures.

Losing Senses, Gaining Wisdom

As I age, I have noticed a growing reliance on spell check, a tool I once derided as unnecessary. Life at 65 presents its own set of challenges, such as needing help to lift a 98-pound bag of cement, something I once handled effortlessly. It's somewhat disheartening to acknowledge the physical limitations that aging brings. Yet, my cardiologist, in response to my lament, looked at me with a stunned expression, and simply said, “Sometimes I feel like an old man too!” This conversation reinforced the idea that the aging process is universal and part of life. Despite the physical changes, the desire to keep learning and growing is as vital as ever.

Conclusion

At 65, the sense of living a life filled with purpose and finding joy in every moment is powerful. Although life can be challenging, the richness of experiences and the ability to enjoy life without the constant burdens of a younger person are invaluable. As long as the mind remains sharp and there is a desire to learn and grow, the journey is far from over. Every day is another gift, and I am committed to not taking a single moment for granted.

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