Guidance 2 Months Before Your Marriage: Preparing for the Big Day

For Muslimahs: Strengthening Your Faith and Marriage Preparation

If you are a Muslimah, the few months leading to your wedding are a perfect time to strengthen your Tawheed belief in Islamic Monotheism. This will be the strengthener of your heart in every trial that may come your way in this world. Understanding and practicing Islamic beliefs, such as Aqeedah and Manhaj, alongside Adab mannerisms of seeking knowledge, will prepare your mind, heart, and soul for the responsibilities of marriage. It is highly recommended to explore this knowledge on Even if you are not Muslim, learning about the core principles of Islam can provide valuable insight and wisdom that will be beneficial in your life.

Take the opportunity to enroll in the marriage course available on These courses are designed to help couples navigate the do’s and don’ts of marriage, ensuring that you and your spouse can build a happy and fulfilling life together. Stay sincere and act upon the knowledge you gain for the rest of your life.

As your wedding approaches, it is crucial to focus on your worship and practice being more tolerant. Marriage requires the ability to share your life with another person, who may come from a different background. Remember that the essence of marriage is to love, respect, and support each other, not to judge or be influenced by the extravagance of society. Ensure that your wedding is inclusive, welcoming guests such as your family members, friends, and even scholars from the Islamic community. Avoid any behavior that could corrupt your heart, such as playing music or movies, or allowing freemixing between opposite genders. Fear Allah and stay mindful of your actions and intentions.

Preparing for Your Partnership: Key Conversations with Your Fiancé

It's essential to have meaningful conversations with your fiancé before the wedding to ensure a strong foundation for your marriage. Discuss matters such as:

Children: Your desire for children, intention to have a family, and how you both see your future together. Religious Beliefs: The religion you will follow together, and any issues related to passing down religious practices to your children or finding a middle ground if your beliefs differ. Past Relationships: Any lingering issues or feelings from past relationships that might affect your present relationship, and how you plan to approach these. Family Dynamics: Your families' likes and dislikes, as well as any issues that might have escalated during the planning of the wedding. Financial Planning: How you will handle your finances, including plans for after the wedding and any joint goals you may have. Jobs: Your future career plans and how they will be managed in light of your marriage.

These discussions will help both of you to be on the same page, which is vital for a healthy and successful marriage. Focusing on living a life together rather than just on the wedding ceremony itself will ensure a stronger bond.

A Comprehensive Pre-Wedding Checklist

Organizing the practical aspects of your wedding is equally important. By the time you are two months from your wedding, you should have several items on your checklist, including:

Your wedding dress and attire for the wedding party. A venue and invitations sent out with food preferences specified. A band, flowers, and an ordered wedding cake. Colors and centerpieces for the reception and a photographer. A place to live after the wedding. Arrangements for a honeymoon, if applicable, including the colors for your mother's dresses and hairstylist and makeup arrangements. Writing your own vows, if desired, and lining up an officiant and obtaining the marriage license.

By taking these steps, you are ensuring that you are well-prepared for a smooth and memorable wedding day.

Best wishes, and congratulations on your upcoming nuptials!