Drunk Driving: A Passenger's Perspective and Safety Strategies

Drunk driving is not only dangerous for the driver but also for anyone who is a passenger in the vehicle. This article provides a first-hand account of what it feels like to ride in a car with an intoxicated driver, the potential hazards, and strategies to handle such situations while ensuring passenger safety.

Personal Encounter with a Drunk Driver in Chaotic Chicago

On a late afternoon in a unfamiliar part of Chicago, my evening took a terrifying turn after a long day on foot and a long way from my hotel. Walking was unappealing due to the time of day and the increasingly unfamiliar territory. After failing to find a taxi, I flagged down a cab when it stopped for me. However, the situation quickly turned murky when I noticed a clear glass bottle full of a clear liquid in the front seat. On closer inspection, it was likely alcohol, not water, which would have been uncharacteristic for the region and time in 1996. The realization of the danger was stark, and it was a conscious decision to leave before I boarded.

Experiences as a Remedial Driving Instructor

As a remedial driving instructor, I have encountered multiple cases of inexperienced and intoxicated drivers. These individuals usually function well up until the point of entering the vehicle. Once inside, the confusion becomes apparent. The challenges for guiding these drivers are numerous, and teaching them to adapt to their surroundings quickly becomes a more complex task.

Control Familiarity: Using my own company vehicle with redundant braking systems, attempts to complete a trip with an intoxicated driver typically lead to numerous reminders and corrections. Mirrors, gear shifts, and other controls are unfamiliar to them, making the driving experience chaotic. The emphasis is usually placed on the inanimate aspect of the vehicle (the car) or external factors (road conditions and teaching methods) rather than the fact that alcohol and medications impair their ability to operate the vehicle safely.

Navigating a Scary Cab Ride in San Francisco

Another incident in San Francisco with a drunk acquaintance driving us through hilly terrain was one of the more unnerving encounters. Not only were we breaking traffic rules, but the speed of the car was unsafe. Despite the lack of immediate danger given the late hour and low traffic, the experience was so harrowing that the thought of getting out of the car at the next red light crossed my mind. Getting the driver to stop was the initial goal, followed by a conversation that ultimately led to a decision to allow me to drive. The mental manipulation required to persuade the driver was extensive and required more than 30 minutes to accomplish. Without my intervention, the driver would likely not have made the 40-mile trip to San Jose safely.

Strategies for Handling Drunk Drivers

Once a situation with a drunk driver is identified, it is crucial to act fast and safely. Here are some effective strategies:

Encourage a Bathroom Break: If possible, suggest stopping at a supermarket or gas station for a restroom. This can be an effective way to get the driver to pull over since physical needs are often recognized even after intoxication. Stay Calm and Logical: Arguing with the drunk driver about their condition will likely be unproductive. Instead, suggest alternative actions that do not challenge their sobriety directly. Stay Safe: Be prepared to leave the car whenever necessary. Plan your escape route and consider the closest safe location, such as a 24-hour store for shelter or a hospital's emergency room if needed.

Ultimately, the decision to either leave the car or convince the driver to allow you to drive should be based on the potential risks and your personal comfort level.

Final Thoughts

The experience of riding with an intoxicated driver is harrowing and can be dangerous. However, understanding personal safety strategies and the strategies used by professionals in teaching and handling such situations can significantly improve the chances of a positive outcome. Being prepared and knowing what to do can save you from a potentially life-threatening situation.